Tuesday, October 27, 2009

ch-ch-changes

I was in the shower the other day thinking about blogging. It seems that is about as close as I get to writing these days. It occurred to me that life had really changed in the past few months. My mother's death in July ushered in all sorts of changes for my family and me. Not all of them have been "bad" changes.

The nicest change is that we have a whole new generation to celebrate now. My niece and her husband welcomed their little boy, Wyatt, into the world on 10 October 2009.


There's nothing like a brand-new baby to love to make you look at life differently.

Here in the Mouse House, we have begun the first phases of empty-nesterism. (I know that's not a real word, but it communicates nonetheless.)

Pup #1 left the nest the beginning of October. He is spending the next 6 months participating in a Biblical outreach program. Countrymouse and I are very proud of him. He is living outside Indianapolis during this time. I think he really likes it there. Countrymouse and I are hoping to spend a few days with him during the Christmas holidays.

Pup #2 left mid-July for Army basic training. We are very proud of him as well. He graduates next week. Countrymouse and I are taking the rest of the pups to see him graduate. We consider it a pretty big deal and we want to support him. More on that to follow!

We've continued to make changes in the house. (I reluctantly have to tell you my kitchen floor is not 100% done. We are still waiting on trim work. I'm beginning to think we need a Plan B.)

My WC sister is no longer my WC sister and my WC brother is no longer my WC brother. Of course they are still my siblings, but they have left the West Coast. (Yay! I'll take anything that's closer.) WC sister is now living in Denver with her family in their first home and WC brother is right here in my little town! He and his family are currently staying with our father, but they'll be moving right across the street from me once their house (see below) is ready.

That is the good part. The not-so-good part is that his cancer is back and that's why they moved "home". I'm happy to have him near though and to get to be a bigger part of his life.

My other siblings (aka EC brother and EC sister) are facing their own challenges in the work force. EC brother is trying his hand at starting his own company and EC sister is changing careers. She's back in school after a 10-year or so hiatus and finding studying at almost 40 different than it was 20 years ago.

We've had some other bumps in the road in our family, but we are moving on. Change can be a hard pill to swallow sometimes, especially when it isn't invited. The important thing is to stay positive and peaceful. (Granted this doesn't always come easily, but thankfully, we have the ability to change our minds.) I try to look at each day as a little capsule and handle it that way. (Remember, I said this doesn't always come easily, but it does come.)

I love this Nina Simone song. It's called "Feelin' Good" (and yes, as a nod to The Love of His Life, I will admit that Michael Buble' does a decent cover. Although the incomparable Ms. Simone covered it about 10 years before he was even born!). The repeating lyrics are "It's a new day, it's a new dawn, it's a new life for me. And I'm feelin' good." I don't feel that way everyday, but I am working on it.




1 comment:

  1. Hey, thanks for following me! I'm not even at the stage of thinking what it will be like to be an 'empty nester' but there are many of days that I am jealous of people like you!

    Changes are good, usually :) Great that you have a positive outlook on it all.

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